Trust is the sum of hundreds of everyday experiences that affect our ability to connect. Each day we must reconnect with our mate by communicating effectively. Anger, bitterness and frustration builds up when we withhold our true thoughts and feeling until we’re in a state of emotional condition critical. During the state condition critical all rational thinking and communication has gone out the window. Are you there right at this moment? If so attempt to try couple of things:
1. Remove yourself so you can refocus
2. As you refocus, reflect on the root of the problem and come up with solutions to resolve them.
3. After you have Removed yourself, Refocused, Reflected, came up with a Resolution, get Reconnected.
My the Lord bless you as you reconnect by faith through pray with your mate and family.
Blended Families, Mending and Blending 
Comments on: "Get Connected" (2)
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Wow this is a very interesting tlciare. It makes a lot of sense to me, however I’m sure that you will have many people say it’s bunk. I am looking back at my own situation growing up. from the girls I grew up with and including the girls growing up today. It really does answer some questions.Thank you for the post it makes one think. ~ sweetcardomom.wordpress.com