Have you ever asked the question who is this stranger in our house?
As a couple after you take a deep breath, take of your rose colorized glasses to see the real picture.
Begin to deal with the issues at hand that has creeped into your home. Such as anger, bitterness, loss, just to name a few. Remember you are dealing with a very tender situation. This stranger is the issues we continue to place into the nearest cubby hold or under the nearest rug that can be found.
“From the fruit of his mouth a man’s stomach is filled; with the harvest from his lips he is satisfied. The tongue has the power of life and death,” Ps 18:20-21 Niv